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Could Your Spouse Be Cheating? How To Find Out For Sure!
By Doug Timlin | November 22, 2008
If you are married or in a relationship, you may have had your suspicions at some point that your spouse was cheating on you. These suspicions can be an awful feeling and they have the ability to make your life a lot more stressful than necessary. There’s an easy way to find out if your spouse is cheating on you that we wanted to show you in this quick article.
The nice thing about this method is that you can do it all from your own home without anyone knowing what you are doing. I get emails from people asking about hiring a private investigator to look into whether their spouse is cheating, however that is such a drastic step that isn’t necessary. This quick and easy “detective’s trick” is the first thing you should do if you have some thoughts that your partner might be acting unfaithfully.
Ready to play detective? Let’s get started!
Step #1 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?
Your first step requires you to be a touch on the tricky side. You will need to “borrow” your spouse’s cell phone and look at it for in around 20 minutes without getting caught.
You are going to look at their call history that is stored on their phone. Find the incoming and outgoing call lists and write down every phone number that you see on a piece of paper.
If you see numbers that you recognize than you don’t have to write them down, but do make sure to jot down any phone number that doesn’t ring a bell.
When you are all done, you can put the phone back and head on to step #2.
Step #2 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?
Now you have a list of phone numbers that your spouse has either called or been called by. At this point it’s time to figure out exactly who is behind each one of these phone numbers.
You might be surprised to know how much you can find about someone with just their phone number. You can get someone’s full name, address, location details and ever background information when all that you have is their phone number.
There are companies that put together massive databases that include information for all phone numbers out there (including unlisted and cell phone numbers). The companies pay to money to have access to these phone records and then allow anyone to “investigate” a phone number when they need to.
We included a link right at the bottom of this article where you can try a free sample search to see how this works.
There is a small fee to use this type of search, but it isn’t expensive. What you will you want to do to save a few bucks is find a company that charges a flat fee for unlimited searches. This way you don’t have to pay for each individual search you run.
This type of search is call a “reverse phone lookup”.
You guessed it - you are going to go through the list of phone numbers and find out details about each one. As you do a search on each one, write down the information you find out on the same piece of paper.
Step #3 - Is Your Spouse Cheating?
Now you have an entire list of exactly who your spouse has been talking to on their phone!
Knowing exactly who your partner has been communicating with is the key to finding out if they are “up to no good”. You have this information in front of you, so look over your list to see what you can find out.
Obviously pay attention to the names that show up and the different calling patterns that you see. In this case, anything suspicious will definitely jump off the page at you.
The great thing about this method is that you an do everything from home and no one will ever know you are running an “investigation”. If there is any reason that you suspect that your spouse is acting unfaithfully, then you need to do what it takes to find out for sure. This technique lets you get the answers that you need quickly and easily. Good luck!
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